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Beware of Sadists

Trust is hard

I will regularly broadcast on chaturbate, just waiting for people I know to drop by.  If my driver wants to have fun with me, she will log in.  Otherwise, I will make use of one of the estim programs on Milovana.

Occasionally, I will get someone that calls me a slave or something else derogatory in the hopes that I will respond in kind.  Others ask if I am a "daddy".  I explain that I am neither a slave, nor a daddy. 

I do consider myself a bottom, but I do not let sadists harm me and I do not accept humiliation. 

Yesterday, someone wanted to control the power unit and started of with playing the Master role. 

For me, this is a serious red flag.

My trusted driver enjoys giving me pleasure and enjoys the ability to have complete control over my cock.  I like that. 

My problem are the people that ask me to give them control, and I have no idea what they want to do or what sort of experience they have with the equipment. 

Training people to know how to operate the 2B takes time and patience; on my part as well as theirs. 

I don't always want to make the investment, and its hard for me to screen out the wrong type of people.   They tend to always give me the answers I am looking for and its only once I give them control that it is apparent they were lying. 

So now I have a hard and fast rule.  If they display any form of sadistic intent, I ignore them, even ban them so they do not get another chance to try and trick me.

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