How E-stim Helps Me

Last Saturday, I found myself with a great opportunity to a self-bondage session.  It takes extra time to set up for self-bondage session.  Ankle and wrist restraints have to be put in place and the ice-cube release mechanism needs to be ready to start. That is in addition to all the stuff I need to put together for the cam and estim. I was all ready to go by 10am.  I password protected my site, and posted my e-stim connect code.  I turned the lights off and laid my head back to take a nap.  I was surprised when within minutes, my cock was getting shocked.  I turned on the light and saw that my driver was already logged on. Unfortunately, she only had a few minutes available, and would not be available for the two or three hours necessary for a good self-bondage session.  So close.  She controlled be for about 20 minutes and then had to go. I will try again another time.

Last Wednesday, I retired to bed early. I decided to install my electrodes and 2B unit.  I added a password to my Chaturbate page and started broadcasting.  Only my driver knows this password.  In the Bio, I pasted the E-connect code for remote control of the 2B unit.  If my driver logs on to Chaturbate, she would have to use the password, then get the code. I surfed the net a bit and played a bit of poker for awhile and then turned off my bedside light and closed my eyes.  This meant that the webcam image went completely dark. I started to drift off. At about 9pm, I got a strong surge of electricity through my cock.  I gasped.  I fumbled with the light switch so that a webcam image would be visible. Of course, MD had arrived. I removed the code from the bio before removing the password and opened the webcam to the chaturbate community. She played with me for about an hour before making me cum.  She was not in a tender ...

Getting connected. Electrodes make the connection between you tender flesh and live electrical current.  For this reason, it makes sense to follow two important rule:  1) Invest in good electrodes.  2) Always use electrode gel if not using an electrode pad with a self adhesive service. Conductive Rubber Many styles of e-stim electrodes you can buy are fashioned from conductive rubber elastomer.  These can be used to form rings of different sizes, some with urethra inserts, butt plugs, cock and ball restraints, and even sounds.  Its a versatile medium, however, I have found that over time, their conductive properties wane. Electrabands I tried  these.  There were great at first, but as the band gets stretched out, the conductivity reduces. Matallic loops These can be expensive, but I have kept returning to these over and over again.  They last forever and conduct very well. Metal and Epoxy probes The combination of epoxy mean...

Being a good driver Driving someone's E-stim unit is not like driving to the grocery store.  The goal is not to get there as quickly and efficiently as possible.  Its more like taking a leisurely drive in the country.  The drive along the way is more important then the destination.  I know males are predominantly orgasm focused, and finishing with an orgasm is important; however, the route along the way makes a big difference in how satisfying the session can be. If you want to be a good driver, then take the time to learn how.  If you want a good driver, then take the time to help someone become a good driver. Who likes to drive? I do not really know.  Personally, I do not find driving very appealing.  Its hard work, and I do not get much satisfaction from watching the male member reacting to stimulation.  There are individuals that like to drive.  The key is finding someone willing to learn how to drive well.  What is th...

Timing is everything I thought this weekend would be my first chance at a selfbondage session, but it just was not in the cards. I did get treated to a very nice late night session on Sunday night.  I started the night with trying to go to sleep, all wired up and available for shocking by my regular driver, MD. I password protected my Chaturbate page; and MD knows what password I use. I connected my 2B using E-Stim connect (https://e-stim.online/connect/) and typed the key into my bio for MD to find. The idea is that I can go off to sleep, and on the off chance she can't sleep and goes online, she can connect and gently wake me up; I hope. It was the first time I attempted this and learned a few lessons. I need a small light so that the camera is not completely black. I need to run all the wires under the blankets as it was impossible to cover myself up with all the wires on top of the blanket, and I could not get to sleep on top of the covers.  Its too cold. ...

Excited I was so excited for tomorrow to do a selfbondage scene with my estim, but I had not realized that it will be Monday that I will have my opportunity, not Friday. That is OK.  I want a bit of time to test melting times with different sizes of ice-cubes.  I want to let my drive decide how long to be tied up.

Getting through the week. Life can be such misery.  Every night as I go to bed, I remind myself of how many more days I have left before I can have another estim session; especially one with a good driver.  This Friday's should be a good session.  I will aim for a morning session, my first driven session with selfbondage. I plan to ask my driver for a three-digit number, something she will remember. During those times where I lay and wait for her to arrive, it would be nice to be able to close my eyes, maybe even take a nap.  I could use the three-digit code to make my page private, and place my remote code in the bio.  I could even place that three-digit code inside the remote code so that it would not work for anyone else as they would need to know what digits to remove.  She can connect to my 2B unit and send a signal to wake me up.  What a way to be roused from my slumber!

My Driver To the best of my knowledge, my driver is a 39 year-old women living in New York.  She is not the only person that drives me, but she is by far the best at it.  We will call her "MD". What is a driver?  A driver is someone that either directly or indirectly controls an estim unit.  In my case, I use a 2B unit and this allows for direct control remotely through the internet.  MD texted me several months ago through Chaturbate, saying she loved to watch men using estim.  She was particularly interested in how estim would cause precum to flow in large thick drops.  Given she had not used estim herself, and was not familiar with the 2B controls, I had little hope that she would be able to drive.  I told her that she would need to spend a bit of time learning how to control the unit and I would provide a chart with proper intensity ranges for each mode.  We worked together for a few sessions to explore the effects of differe...

Why the blog?  Its just a small sanity measure.  A chance to talk about the one thing I really cannot talk about with anyone else.  I am a user of e-stim;  low-amp electrical signals that can stimulate erogenous zones and simulate erotic stimulation. Its enjoyable and does result in orgasm. A few decades ago, people used to make use of the ordinary home stereos to do this.  The problem was the risk of high amp signals that could damage tissue, nerves, and even cause death. A safer option was the TENS unit.  While it is not specifically designed to provide erotic stimulation, it works, however, I have never seen a TENS unit with an audio input option.  Since, then, the market has responded with a dizzying array of commercial products that can deliver a safe supply of electrical signals.  They even come with wonderful options such as audio input, web-based remote control, keyboard control of unit, and the ability to program and save e...